Better Husband Blog
The Better Husband Blog is where men learn practical relational skills to build stronger marriages. Here you’ll find insights on communication, trust, intimacy, and leadership in your relationship. Each article offers clear steps you can put into practice right away so you can show up as the partner your wife needs and the man you want to be.
If you've been working on your marriage for any length of time, you've probably heard some version of the same advice: your wife needs to be able to tell you the truth.
The truth about how she's been feeling, the ways she's been hurt, the moments wh...
There is a moment that happens in many marriages where a conversation changes before either person realizes it. Your wife brings something up that matters to her, something she has been thinking about or carrying for a while, and before you have even...
Many husbands struggle with the same pattern: they want to be dependable, supportive, and present, so they say yes as quickly as possible. When their wife brings up something important, their first instinct is often to help, solve, or take responsibi...
I'm going to describe an interaction that you’re probably familiar with:
Your wife asks, "How are you doing?" or "Is something bothering you?"
You know something feels off. You're stressed, frustrated, discouraged, or carrying something you haven't...
There’s something almost universal about men in relationships: we tend to be natural fixers. When something is broken, we want to repair it.
That instinct, although it may not always feel this way, is one of your greatest strengths. It’s how you bui...
There’s a moment in almost every marriage where something small turns into something much bigger than it needed to be.
Think about a time where a plan changed, something didn’t go the way you expected, or your wife said something that hit you the wr...
There’s a moment that shows up in a lot of marriages, and if you’re honest with yourself, you’ve probably been there.
Your wife is telling you how exhausted she feels. She’s overwhelmed, burned out, and carrying more than she can handle. She’s openi...
At some point in almost every one of my coaching conversations, the same moment appears.
A man begins describing something that has been weighing on him. Sometimes a comment his wife made that landed poorly, other times it’s a pattern he has noticed...