Better Husband Blog

Do you agree with this statement?

Being a “good husband” means staying calm, keeping the peace, and avoiding conflict.

If you believe that holding back your thoughts, staying agreeable, or keeping your opinions to yourself is the best way to mainta...

Have you ever said, “I’m sorry,” hoping it would end a fight, only to notice your wife still seems distant, guarded, or hurt? You said all the right things, yet something still feels unresolved. You might be left thinking, What more am I supposed to ...

Have you ever noticed that no matter how much you try, your arguments with your wife always seem to end the same way? Maybe you walk away frustrated, unheard, or like you’re stuck in a loop, revisiting the same fight over and over. If that sounds fam...

Do you find that, when your wife shares a concern, your brain instantly puts up a wall? Or it sounds the alarm for a fight you didn’t even want? Maybe your wife mentions a minor mess in the house, or points out a miscommunication, and suddenly you’re...

Many couples experience a disconnect in sexual desire at some point in their marriage. You may find yourself craving intimacy while your partner seems distant (or maybe the roles are reversed). Either way, this difference can create frustration, rese...

Defensiveness is one of the fastest ways to shut down a real conversation.

And in a marriage, that can make or break things.

When a partner shares that they feel disconnected, overlooked, or unheard, the instinct to defend yourself is natural, yes....

Every husband messes up. Every man drops the ball.

Maybe you forgot an anniversary, ignored a request, or let life get in the way. If your wife feels disappointed or hurt because of something you didn’t do, this isn’t the end of your marriage! It’s ...

Have you ever found yourself at a loss when your wife is upset or emotional?

Maybe she’s crying, frustrated, or stressed, and instead of knowing how to respond, you freeze. Do you try to fix it right away, change the subject, or maybe just go quiet ...

In marriage, the words you choose during conflict can either build intimacy or tear it down.

Think about the last argument you had with your wife. Did it feel like you were on autopilot, saying things that made the tension worse? You’re not alone. M...

Defensiveness is one of the fastest ways to shut down meaningful communication in marriage. It happens in a split second: your wife asks for something to change, and instead of hearing her request, you feel criticized, attacked, or even inadequate. W...

Marriage can be one of the greatest sources of joy in life. Getting to spend it with your best friend and teammate is a privilege that not everyone has.

But, it can also be a place of quiet frustration. Many husbands find themselves taking care of e...